This or this ? Why do western men (farang—the local term for westerners) come to Thailand, and why do some of them stay in Thailand—is the attraction Thai women (ser-way mark mark = girls very beautiful) or something else? The usual answer to this question is ‘Yes’ (to the former)! The common belief is that farang men come to Thailand for sex with Thai women (some come for sex with ladyboys, many Australian married men, so it seems—but that is a story for another day), however, I will put forward a counter view, that in fact most western men do not come to Thailand primarily for women, rather they come for the entire lifestyle experience—warm weather, low cost of living, a new environment, not being at home, away from their family and friends, an opportunity for greater personal freedom—and that the ‘Thai women’ are incidental. Of course, I make all of these claims without any hard numbers, based solely on personal accounts, so I could be 100% wrong! The western men I will discuss fall
Ian is treading the roads, pathways and dimensions of south east Asia in a quest for spiritual
fulfilment, and a desire to spend some time in new lands. Here are his stories
(and a few personal thoughts):